How many of us can actually welcome change with open arms? Get out of our comfort zone, a place v feel v belong and then go out into the biting cold or the scorching sun. I have always been a person who never could adjust to change...... but with time- and may i confess a lot of hard core changes- i have realised that rebelling against the everchanging atmosphere in my life, is definitely not gonna help me adjust to it. Changes are like the rain in the monsoon and the heat in summer. If it has to come, it will and u have to bear it. No amount of air conditioner bills and raincoats is gonna prevent it from coming. So go out in the rain and soak away to glory and apply suntan lotion and get an awesome golden brown tan. Make the best of ur changes, because these changes are also temporary and soon other situations will replace them. The scouts n guides have this motto-Be prepared- i never knew what it was all about, but have been able to properly apply it to my life-albeit 22 yrs late- but its never too late.
Kinda reminds me of a chapter on Organisation in my Industrial Psychology paper. Something about episodic and continuous change. So life is an episodic change, you dont really wanna change, but due to circumstances u have to and by the time u DO change, another circumstance dictates another change and its a chain reaction, a vicious circle which goes on and on:) so the solution is that, instead of tiring urself by a constant step taking of worrying, rebelling, changing and then adjusting and then going at it again, just indulge in continuous change and that reiterates my theory of Be Prepared :)
2 comments:
hey....on this one i can only say
"i truely agree"....but its still difficult to apply..isn't it....i think sometimes u need a change in changing ;) .but change is the only thing constant...n so we have no option left than accepting change n changing wid change....its a good learnin
process actually...sometimes...actually many a times wen u turn bak n c urself as a kid or jus see how u wer be4 2 yrs...if the change is +ve ,its pleasant to imagine all that....if the change is -ve ,it ll stil lead u somewhe...frm dis learnin process we learn to MOVE ON....we learn to accept things as they r,accept ourselves as v hv turned out..we learn to forgive, we learn to let go n someday which ll definitely lead to stability f mind, of soul, of our being....sometime we ll be able to ctrl our minds,,our thots....nt ctrl really but ya, to channelize them....n we wud love to wait for that day....i know that stability too wud nt b permanent but yup it ll be like those first rains....for which we wait desperately...coz they r coolin, efreshin after slaps given by heat....we know they ll nt last forevr...n i guess we dun want tht....but jus tht coolin effect ll make us wait for them...
keep writin.....i ll read n comment to all of them.......pakka promise...love ya take care
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